Personal Power
by Joseph Fedorowsky
Your own Personal Power essentially
flows from an allowance in which you permit yourself to access and accept all of who you are while genuinely
trusting yourself, and not selling yourself short or putting yourself down.
From that perspective, your own
personal power is integral to you, a significant aspect of who you already are. It is not something apart from you
which you must obtain or which you need to control or measure. Your own personal power is thus not actually
determined by how much influence or control you wield over your environment or others or even over
yourself.
Personal power has to do with
consciously tapping into you, into your own energy, such that you recognize the choices you have at hand and such
that you express an ability to act on those choices in the here and now, and thus create and accomplish what it is
you intend and what you desire to create and accomplish.
This movement toward access and
acceptance of yourself is quite natural. It involves a shift in your perception, not treadmill exercises to ‘get
motivated’ or ‘improve’ or ‘develop’ or similar. That shift within your perception may more accurately be viewed as
a continuous opening up to who you already are and thus distinguished from pushing yourself to become
something you’re not.
Recognizing and understanding your
own personal power will involve exploring the various components of personal power, such as time, communication,
perception and so on. All of these areas and more will be developed on this website and through the
services offered and shared.
Another approach to personal
power is to view it as your own personal, direct authority over your own life and person, and the present,
objective ability to create what you desire in your experience within the physicality of your day-to-day waking
reality.
This expression includes the concept
of victim, of helplessness and lack of control. Victim is reflected in a belief in which you view yourself as
a person who has little or no control of some aspect of your own life. It is a perspective that boxes you in such
that you view aspects of your reality (people, circumstances, your body, money, relationships, for example) as
controlling of you, which deny you choices and which restrict your movement and freedom.
The expression of victim is more or
less opposite to the expression of personal power and of your ability and of your responsibility to generate your
own reality as you prefer. As you recognize how you may be viewing various aspects of your life in victim mode, the
movement toward yourself from there is not to put yourself down and not to chastise yourself, but to recognize how
that view directly impacts what you actually do create moment-to-moment.
That recognition is the beginning of
the perceptual shift toward accessing more your own personal power and
freedom.
|